I visit the physical rehab that I was in when I was first injured to visit an offer peer support to the newly injured. This is a devastating time in life and a lot of decisions are made out of fear and anger which can lead to bad things. This I speak from experience, in the beginning following such a life altering injury emotions are on a roller coaster ride "up and down up and down!" Inspiration and motivation comes and goes on that same roller coaster.
When I was in physical rehab I started out inspired and motivated, spending extra time in the therapy gym hitting the weights. But towards the middle of my stay I unfortunately found out that a stay in a nursing home was in my near future, this produced two avenues for me; work harder towards independence, or give up! Unfortunately I chose the latter I was not seeing results in my physical therapy I could not take care of myself and did not see this in my future. I struggled with all the embarrassment and shame that came with my injury on a daily basis (not being able to dress myself, bathe myself, go to the bathroom by myself, get in and out of bed by myself and of course with a new bowel and bladder problem, well you can imagine).
If I would’ve had an opportunity to speak with someone like myself (where I am at a life today) I feel I would’ve made different choices that would have speeded up my recovery (3 years were wasted basically in my bedroom because I was depressed and felt sorry for myself). To have someone show me the many opportunities there are and how they adapted to their injury would’ve made a world of difference. Just to see somebody who has gained independence and had some success would’ve given me some motivation to strive for the same.
After three years of pain and misery I decided to make a change (and they say paint is the ultimate motivator). I joined a Murderball (quad rugby) team and played for a season. Just in the first couple of months I became physically able to take care of myself and learned how to drive again. Sports and fitness are solely responsible for my physical and mental health that is why I have made it a part of my life. So I have become a big advocate on sports and fitness.
I recently decided to obtain a personal trainers certification, and I guess my short-term goals would be to work with younger disabled athletes that want to pursue wheelchair sports on a competitive level. Wheelchair workouts require a lot of adaptation and ingenuity which I have been working on for the last five or six years. Basically fitness saved my life and I want to give back so that people can avoid the pitfalls that I unfortunately had to experience.
Overall I’m trying to incorporate physical fitness/bodybuilding/sports with motivational speaking. Like I said earlier life is very hard after such a traumatic injury. Sometimes people don’t bounce back and I was almost 1 of them, so I feel that reaching people early in their injuries is detrimental in their recovery (or a sports career). Early injured patients need hope and they need to be able to actually see an example of what they can accomplish, and they need to learn the tools they will need to accomplish their goals.
Michael C.





